Fenny’s Fun Pensieve

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A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
…one old love
she can imagine
going back to..
and one who reminds
her how far she has come…
(Old flame always flares again, even after so many years. One old love I can imagine going back to is the guy I love most and probably never meet again.)

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
…enough money within her
control to move out and
rent a place of her own
even if she never wants
to or needs to…
(absolutely in line with my opinion. Someday I‘ll buy my own house when I am too old to be ‘anak kost’)

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
..something perfect to wear if the employer
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour…
(Little black dress is a must-have item! It’s understated yet stylish, giving you the instant elegant look)

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
..a youth she’s content
to leave behind…
(yup yup…the proud feeling of ‘I’ve been there’ and the long lasting benefit of our rigorous skin/hair/beauty regime ^__^)

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
…a past juicy enough that
she’s looking forward to
retelling it in her old age…
(Ladies…remove the ‘goody goody label’ on your back from now on. Let your wild side see the light of day.)

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE:
…a set of screwdrivers,
cordless drill, and a black
lace bra…
(Some useful tips: watch Bob The Builder and read

Victoria

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
..one friend who always makes
her laugh… and one who lets her cry…
(Can we have a 2-in-1 package? *fingers-crossed*)

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
…a good piece of furniture
not previously owned by anyone
else in her family..
(I’ll have some Avant-Garde furnitures in my living room one day).

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
…eight matching plates, wine
glasses with stems, and a recipe
for a meal that will make her
guests feel honored..
(I wish I were Bree Van de Kamp. Unfortunately, I’m more like Susan Mayer who is practically useless in the kitchen…)

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
…a feeling of control over her destiny…
(We are the master of our own destiny. Unless you are a geisha, stop acting like a protégé who relies on her patron).

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW….
how to fall in love without
losing herself…
(errr…this is tough. Be sensible and value yourself before stepping into the wilderness.)

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
..how to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without ruining the friendship…
and how to change a tire!!!!!!!
(Don’t lose your courage no matter what. Keep your chin up and walk gracefully whatever life throws at you.)

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
…when to try harder… and
when to walk away….
(Ask yourself a question. Are you doing it for you or your ego?)

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
…that she can’t change the
length of her calves, the width
of her hips, or the nature of her
parents…
(Thank God, it didn’t mention anything about thighs. It means they are fixable (I hope so!).

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
…that her childhood may not have been perfect…
but its over…
(My one and only grief is that I didn’t have that Barbie doll)

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW….
…what she would and wouldn’t
do for love or more…
(Never let him trample your dignity. It’s unacceptable in every way.)

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
..how to live alone… even if
she doesn’t like it…
(Sometimes it’s not a matter of choice. You just have to live it and take good care of yourself. Otherwise, there’s nobody to do it for you.)

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
…whom she can trust,
whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t
take it personally…
(For a person often accused of being vindictive, I can’t give the best comment about this. I’ll try not to take it personally THOUGH IT’S WAY TOO DIFFICULT!

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
…where to go…  be it to her best friend’s kitchen table.. or a
charming inn in the woods…  when her soul needs soothing…
(I love the charming inn idea better…hehe..of course I’ll take my best friend with me.)

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she can and can’t
accomplish in a day..
a month…and a year…

(It’s not necessarily be daily to do’s list. Monthly is fine.

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